July is my favorite month. My birthday is the 16th, our wedding anniversary was the 12th, and I am a summer, warm and sunny weather, fanatic. So much cause for celebration. Last week is easily one of the biggest gifts I've been given. To hear that my brain tumor is shrinking was a divine gift from God. On that very same day- the newest member of the Westra family made his arrival. Rick's brother Matt, and his wife Julie welcomed Bennett Matthew into the world. Our heart's desire is to travel to visit them soon- I just need one more good report from Dr. Panwalkar in two weeks.
The gifts I've counted these past few days are as equally profound as they are life altering. I'm not sure I can comprehend why so much goodness and light and love has come around, but I am feeling like one lucky girl.
So I am going to take my time and document this for some very personal reasons. It'll be lengthy- feel free to skip right over it if you are short on time :)
Part I
We kicked off Cully's Kids 3 day event (Cullen Children's Foundation provides financial resources to organizations that support children's healthcare needs with an emphasis on cancer,) Thursday night at Ushers. The excitement was growing all day. We all knew this year there was a "big announcement" being made on the 2nd day of the 3 day event. The anticipation charged the air with an extra current of energy felt by so many.
As I went to view some of the silent auction items, I felt a tap on my shoulder. I turned to see a familiar face that I hadn't seen in 20 plus years, my friend Wendy. Wendy and I went to college together at Concordia. But we also went to Europe together for 5 weeks and were roommates most of the trip. The flood of memories that chased me all night long were so rich and sweet and I felt like a piece of me had come home. I think its safe to say a friendship has been resurrected, and I am still beaming.
But Wendy and I have more in common. Wendy works for Sanford's Children's Hospital and has been there ever since we graduated college. Part of the big announcement from the Cullen's has a lot to do with Wendy... (part II coming...)
My sweet friend Julie has been part of Cully's Kids for 8 years now. To say her and her husband Tony, have given a lot of their time, talent and energy, doesn't scratch the surface of the contributions they've made. It was Julie that called us 4 years ago to see if our boys would volunteer at the picnic on the third day. The boys have loved every minute they have been involved. Do you also see the "keys" around our necks? More about those shortly...
Dawn is another friend with whom I share a long history. Fortunately we cross paths frequently. Dawn, a well known figure skater, is largely responsible for teaching both of our boys to skate. Just multiply all the years she has been teaching, and all of the kids she has taught and her legacy stretches out in rippling waves that know no ends.
Bridget Cullen, graciously posing with our friend Joel. Joel has been training Nolan off the ice. Rick and I have been amazed at how much he has shaped Nolan both physically, and mentally. Joel has been beyond generous in his time and talent given to Nolan and we are so grateful.
I don't know where to begin to try and tell you about Bridget Cullen. Her husband Matt is the "celebrity" behind Cully's Kids (Matt is an NHL hockey player for the Minnesota Wild.) But the heart, the soul, and the driving force, of the Cullen Children's Foundation squarely lies in the hands of Bridget. There are so many words that you could use to describe her- warm, engaging, generous, compassionate- and they'd all be true. But she is one of those rare people, whose gift is making you feel like you matter. Talk with her for 15 seconds, or 5 minutes, and you'll walk away feeling better about life in general.
Rachel and Jen are hockey mom's like myself. They've both given of their time and talents to my own family and it does not surprise me in the least to see them volunteering for Cully's Kids either.
Part of the excitement of the night was due to these keys around our necks. There were only 100 keys. You could purchase one for 50 dollars. One of the keys unlocked a box- to a beautiful diamond ring valued at $3,000. Whose key would be magic?
Well...
First Bridget randomly picked a color of ribbon from all the possible colors. If your ribbon matched that color picked, you would get a chance to try your key in the lock. And the color chosen? SILVER. Do you see which color is around my neck above? It happened to be our 15th wedding anniversary. The excitement was growing... I happened to be third to try my lock and...
it didn't open... nope... wouldn't budge. But the girl next to me? She happens to be Bridget's friend, Tanya, the wife of NHL player Eric Staal of the Hurricanes, and yep... she won!
And for the rest of the night- I was the girl who "almost" won. But...
really... you know I feel like I won already. The gift of friendship, of community- the spirit of giving- those were all the gifts being given. I've found the real "key" to receiving all those gifts? Is opening your heart... and my heart has been laid wide open.
more... part II...
It's my birthday today... I'm so grateful to celebrate another year... 45 years and counting...
Happy birthday, Vicky!
ReplyDeleteThanks Melissa!
DeleteWhat a fun night and such a neat group of people! happiest of birthdays to you, dear friend, and I am praying that you get to make that visit to see your newest little nephew!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much Becky!
DeleteHappy, Happy Birthday, Vicky! Today is also my sister's birthday. She is a gift to me...as are YOU and your blog! Enjoy each and every minute of your special day!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much Becky! I hope your sister had a great day- I sure was blessed by mine :)
DeleteMay your day be as special as you are...Happy Birthday sweet Vicki. So thankful for you and the news you have been sharing. Love.
ReplyDeleteHello sweet friend- thank you so much for blessing me with your words! Love you too!
DeleteOh sweet friend! Happy Happy Birthday! Let's keep adding years to our lives! I turn 45 in Jauary ;)
ReplyDeleteJust this Sunday our pastor said at the end of the service "I cannot begin to ask God why, none of can. Instead I say "ok Lord thy will be done"
Big hug to you!
xoTiffany
Tiffany- so cool we're so close in age :) Thank you sweetie- your pastor sounds wise and encouraging!
DeleteHappy Birthday, dear Vicky!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Bonnie!
DeleteFirst of all a BIG Happy Birthday to you! WHAT a YEAR this has been. Today marks the end of that year and the beginning of a new one filled with promise. You had so many mind-bending, heart-wrenching, and bone-breaking moments this last year that no one would wonder if you just shut the door. But, because you're YOU, I know that you also experienced the heartfelt love of SO many and, maybe because of what you've gone through, you've gotten to see the best of so many and find out (if there was ever any doubt) how dearly loved you are. You've shared those blessings and hardships with us and we continue to rejoice with you that your brain tumor is shrinking and pray, believing, for more miracles.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you, today, dearest Vicky, and know that this is a happy day for me as well as I ponder your special day (why are so many of my sweetest friends 45 or 46?) and think of where you are this moment, after this year, and think of you being with family and friends. I love you and wish I could give you a hug! Enjoy every moment!
You continue to bless me with your sweet and uplifting words- thank you friend! I too wish we were someplace together :) One day Miss Robynn- we'll just have to keep hope alive for one day! Love you!
DeleteSounds like you had a great time. What a cutie you were.:)
ReplyDeleteThank you Vic :)
DeleteHappy Birthday to YOU sweet Vicky!!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much sweet friend :)
DeleteBlessings for years of wonderful birthdays.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Susan!
DeleteHappy Birthday gorgeous Vicki. I am so glad that things are so positive - I must have missed the post about the brain tumor. How wonderful, just Wow. Get out there in the sun and have fun and get lots of Vitamin D. You look wonderful too in those pictures, really happy.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Lilly! I am basking in the sun- it feels so good. Thank you for your sweet words of encouragement always :)
DeleteLove it! I'm bummed we missed it, but looks like it was another memorable experience. :)
ReplyDeleteOh but you had a great reason to miss- the excitement of the baseball tourney will be something you'll never forget!
DeleteVicky, wishing you the best and most blessed birthday.
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TeresaL
Thank you so much Teresa :)
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