Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Huskies For a Cure

A few months back, we were standing in Barnes and Noble, Rick and I. I can lose myself in a heady rush of freshly printed pages and coffee smells as soon as I cross the threshold of the door. So I know I wandered a bit on my own. But then I looked up and saw Rick talking with someone.

I think it was preordained. We didn't just accidentally meet. Rick was talking with Dave and Lisa Christian. I've briefly talked with them before, but they are better acquainted with Rick.

As I approached them, Lisa turned to me and reintroduced herself. We chatted causally for a minute. It was Rick who sought my eye and quietly told me in a hushed voice, that Lisa had just been diagnosed with hormone negative breast cancer.

I had heard just the week prior that someone from our "hockey" community had been diagnosed and it would become public knowledge soon. My mind had reeled with the possibilities, and yet as prepared as you are to find out who it is, when you put a name and face with it, it cuts just as deep.

Tears sprang to my eyes, and we gushed, her and I. Lumpectomy? Mastectomy? Treatment? Sanford? Mayo? The kids? The vulnerability? The fear? Fresh tears silently creep for the answer to each question.

How do I offer her grace?

Strength?

Hope?

As I search for words, its then I notice where we are all standing.

Can you guess?

Preordained.

Within arms reach is the christian literature book section and front and center is One Thousand Gifts, by Ann Voskamp. I grab it and put it into her hands. "This is how I do it... this is how to do it." She reaches for that and as she hugs it to her she asks "what else?" I reach again for Francis Chan, "Crazy Love." We peruse more titles till her arms fill and I know she is fortified with the best.

She'll learn the language of cancer soon enough.  It isn't what she needs from me.  Faith and hope in a steady supply is what she will need.

They have dinner plans with friends and have to rush off. The "sisterhood" has widened by one more. We've gone from acquaintances to cancer sistas in moments.

Thank goodness I know her family and how they will love her through it. And the hockey community will rise up and embrace her as well. But everything she needs filled her arms and then some on that day.

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So last week Rick showed up with this for me.  Jordy Christian, nephew of Dave and Lisa from above, donated a generous gift of money to breast cancer research in my name.  Jordy plays Division I hockey for St. Cloud State University and we've been lucky enough to watch him all through his high school playing days right up to now.  I had instant tears for the way his own family has now been touched by breast cancer and how his thoughtful gesture touched me.  I apparently haven't eaten enough cookies for it to fit me, so I've attached it to my purse and carry it with me.




Almost every year when he comes home for Christmas, Jordy invites our boys to come and play some hockey with him.  This year the weather made for a perfect outdoor hockey outing.



I could see the excitement in the eyes of my boys as they got their gear ready that morning.  They were going to play hockey on the frozen pond on the golf course behind Jordy's house.  And with the bright blue sky and the sun streaming down, the conditions were perfect for Rick to take photos.  



Colton put on his goalie gear and here he is taking on Jordy's brother Bryant.  Bryant is a Moorhead Spud hockey player and plays for our high school team which is currently undefeated.  Both Nolan and Colton have dreams of playing for the Spuds one day.


Nolan was in heaven just being able to skate outside in temperatures that were mild and warm.  And taking on both a Division I hockey player and a Moorhead Spud at the same time put a little jump in his step.


They even had a rookie skating with them (in white) the entry level for hockey players in our youth program.  



I asked Nolan if he fell since he wasn't wearing any pads... he said a quick no, and then smiled and said once, sort of.  Hmmm, Jordy claims he had NOTHING to do with it... but his stick placed in the blade of Nolan's skate begs to differ... ha ha.  



In photo after photo, all you could see were beaming faces.  Its a rare treat on many levels to play outside in mild temps in December in Minnesota.  Its an even rarer treat to play with a Husky and a Spud both with the name Christian.  


Our younger boys look up to and want to be just like the big guys.  They see all the talent, the skill, the speed they have.  They're starting to understand the hard work it takes, and how you have to increase your understanding of the game all the time.  But what they don't know, is that it takes a big heart to be an exceptional player and a role model.  It takes a mother's eyes to see the bigness of Jordy's and Bryant's hearts- and trust me, they're big, really, really big.  


8 comments:

  1. What a gift you have shared with your friend. The "star" in your photo is where our focus needs to be no matter what, isn't it?!

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  2. I picture Lisa's embrace of the books...not only embracing them physically, but embracing what they would do to help her. You, my friend were at the exact place at the exact time you were meant to be there. Thank you to God for ordaining that for the both of you.
    What you shared about your sons' big-hearted friends has lifted my heart tonight.
    May your dreams always be sweet ones...
    Love,
    Jackie

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  3. Vicky, I believe that there are no coincidences in life. Everything that happens in our life, every person we meet, every place we go all has a reason and a purpose. It’s not a coincidence, but meant to be.

    How wonderful that your boys got to play hockey with the "big boys". It will be an experience that they will never forget, I'm sure.

    Eileen xxoo

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  4. Vicky I couldn't love more your 'encounter' with Lisa.

    How powerful..."this is how I do it" and placing the book in her hands.

    I picture God in heaven ordaining that 'chance meeting' ... because He knows He can count on you and because He wants to give Lisa a life line for the months ahead.

    Nolan is looking so old, the action shot of him is awesome...and that Colton. Sigh, his unguarded smile lights up everything doesn't it?

    love you sweet one..

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  5. Wow, Vicky. Well, I'm not surprised. This is the way it works. Things happen...at the right time...and we know grace is at work. And it's able to be manifest because you are open to it! And in turn, you help others open their arms to it as well - literally. I'm sad for her, happy that you are in her life, hopeful for you both.

    As for the hockey stuff, it's so fun to watch from the sidelines. :)

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  6. I will continue to pray that they invent a cure for cancer which doesn't involve chemo, radiation and surgery. I am so happy God chose you to comfort His creation. You did all that was possible. He will stay by her side and see her through this. Just like he saw you through it. I wish you and your family a very Happy, Healthy and peaceful 2012.

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  7. Grace is at work surely. God has given you to us. You are making a difference in everyone's lives. God bless you Vicky!!

    And boy check out those handsome hockey players!!!

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